The Village Love Notes

Remember when I talked about how important the Village is in helping our little guy fully grasp how much this community loves him?  It's here if you missed that one:

This is your chance to speak to his heart.  He isn't going to fully understand what true love and acceptance is when he gets here.  Just because we tell him aloud that he is part of our family and our "village," doesn't mean that he will accept those kind words for a while.  He needs to see them.  He need a daily reminder that we've prayed for him and will not leave him.

Isn't this the same thing that we need from God?  He gave us his word so that we can always look back and remember that His promises are true and His love is real.

So, I present to you The Village Love Notes.

There is 100 cards labeled 1-100.  Each card represents a $ amount (ex. #4 card = $4 donation). When you choose a card # and donate that $ amount, we will take whatever verse, encouraging word, or prayer that you have for our little guy and place it on the back of your card.  When he gets home, we'll give him 1 card per day to read.  100 days worth of Love Notes can do wonders for a child's wounded heart.  

If you'd like to buy a card, please go to our GoFundMe page here: http://www.gofundme.com/cmv998  and donate your selected amount of money.  Please comment on the page that you are buying ___ card and you want to tell our little guy _____.  

I will post a running list of cards that have been bought, so you know which cards are still available.  

#15 and #30 card is unavailable!

Again, thank you for standing in the gap for us!

The Village

I figure its about time that we talk about the Village part of "A Vision & A Village."

Raising kids is hard work.  Raising kids from hard places is REALLY hard work.

The road to our little guy is long and will be incredibly trying.  As soon as we announced that we were adopting, Satan immediately started digging around in our hearts and heads.  He told us lie after lie about how adopting from the D.R. Congo is a terrible idea.  He pushed us to question God's calling and even question the vision itself.

Friends, this is where you come in.  When talking to each other couldn't lift the cloud of doubt, we called on some friends who had walked this path before us.  They went to bat for us and spoke truth when all we were hearing was lies.  They were our village.

When little man finally comes home, this is the village that we are going to desperately need: prayer warriors, encouragers, prophets, teachers, and friends. Our family will be rocked, and we will need you.  Little man will need people who understand where he has come from in order that he can learn what it means to be a dearly loved SON.

Yes, it will take a village of people to help us raise the funds to bring him home, but what you speak into his life and into ours is far more important than the money you donate.

"It takes a village to raise a child."  - African Proverb

Timelines and Such

A super smart friend of mine just brought to my attention that you guys don't have a ton of info. Oops....

Sometimes I get ahead of myself when it comes to blogging and what not. So for those of you that we haven't discussed this in length with, here's a little FAQ section!

Q: How long until you get to bring him home?

A: Hopefully between 1 1/2 to 2 years. D.R. Congo has some exit letter stuff going on right now that may push this date back if it isn't cleared up soon. We're hoping for the best though!

Q: How old will he be?

A: Anywhere between the ages of 2 and 6.

Q: What agency are you using?

A: We'll be working with WACAP, a well-known non-profit that has been doing international adoptions for decades. They are a Haque accredited agency and we have heard nothing but great things about them from families we know and trust. We did a lot of digging before we chose them to make sure there was no funny business going on.

Q: What does the process look like?

A: It is pretty similar to our adoption of Layla, with a few key changes:

Apply. 

Complete a home study. 

Complete a ton of paperwork (Dossier.) Send said Dossier to be translated into French and then send to the Congolese government. 

Agency sends us a referral of a boy that they have matched us with.

We accept referral.

We wait months for a court hearing date.

We travel and stay in the DR Congo for 14 days.

We come home!

(There are tons if other smaller pieces to this puzzle, but these are the big ones of all goes well.)

Q: What does my donation go to?

A: international adoptions aren't cheap. All of the money we need to raise and save from our own paychecks goes toward paying agency fees, US govt fees, DR Congo govt fees, keeping our child alive and healthy in an orphanage or foster care situation until we can get them, travel, and new documents for him to become a US citizen, etc. There is a LOT that goes into this. 

Q: What are you doing to share the fundraising burden?

A: Every extra penny we have is going toward this adoption. We've cut out all kinds of unnecessary bills and are selling anything that we've collected over the years that we don't need or use. 

Q: Is now a good time?

A: I know it looks like we've lost our minds. We've wrestled long and hard with this choice. Life is hectic, just like it always is. If you've spent any significant time with us, you know that we like it this way. There is always something going on, and that won't change in the next 10 years. We could sit on this for a couple of years in order to be more comfortable before we begin, but I find it impossible to justify letting our child  eat out of a garbage can, sleep on the streets, and possibly be recruited as a child soldier for the next couple of years just because we are busy. We are busy simply because we like being busy. No job, volunteer work, or hobby should or will ever come before family.

I think that's it for now! If you have other questions, let us know and we'll be happy to grab some coffee or just shoot you an email if that's easier. :)

"Where He leads, I'll follow."

Anna

Let's Talk Money!

I really don't like writing this post, but I know it's needed. We've been hand-making and selling cute little jewelry and paintings to start helping us raise funds so we can push through this process. After looking at material cost and time it takes to make this stuff, I've realized that we aren't banking much. You guys have been awesome in buying stuff, but it's going to take us 10 years to bring our little man home at this rate.

How much is this going to cost us in the long run? We're currently singing the tune of around $32k... Yikes! We know that God is faithful though and He will provide for what he's called us to.

So obviously we don't have 32 grande sitting around. We can't bring him home without your generosity.  Please remember that this is t some anonymous child. He will be your neighbor, cousin, nephew, grandson, or friend. He may even end up being your son's best friend or your daughter's future husband.

With that in mind, I hope you'll welcome the price increase and support our future yard sale, t shirt sale, and other fundraisers!

-In Him,

Anna